I have a friend who went very problematic when his girlfriend dumped him. Away from the toughie that he used to be, he went to my house, crying while saying “I need to get my x girlfriend away from that moron.” Truly, love can soften any hard rock. But that is not the issue. If that happened to me, I would also be willing to get my x girlfriend back as fast as humanly possible.

- First, you should try and ask for forgiveness. A man who knows how to admit his errors in a sincere way impresses every woman, even those who are cold-hearted. Saying “I’m sorry” cannot lessen a guy’s masculinity.

- Take everything slowly but surely. If you have hurt her so much, then immediate reconciliation will not yet be possible, it’s going to take a bit of time. “How can I get my x girlfriend back if she is still bitter”, you ask? Simple: start from the bottom. Remember your relationship before you had romantic affairs with each other? Bring it up again at this point. Earn her respect once again by being a friend.

- Be subtly sweet. Yes, you are not allowed to hold her hand nor kiss her lips when the two of you are just friends, but you can melt her heart with simple actions like touching her shoulders as a way of consoling her or pinching her arms lightly in a funny situation.

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